The Struggle to Gain Weight

By Amanda Jowsey

Amanda Jowsey is a freelance writer for In Good Health. She lives in Buffalo with her husband and daughter.

Gaining weight has always been one of my biggest challenges. It’s one of the most conscious efforts I’ve ever had to make. I was built to be small. It takes a complete lifestyle change for me to put on any weight.

For someone who was built skinny and naturally does not gain weight as quickly as I lose it, eating feels like a chore. It’s hard and sometimes exhausting trying to take care of myself. I’m bombarded with information online. The pressure I feel to eat healthy balanced meals– as often as I should–plus snacks and water. I’m overwhelmed.

About two months ago, I started this journey to gain weight. I wanted to feel better. I had very little energy, was frequently cold, and irritable (we can partially thank Buffalo winters for that). My doctor ruled out any underlying medical conditions. Then I realized how poorly I had been eating. I couldn’t find time as a busy mom to take care of myself the way I take care of my daughter. It became all about the healthiest, easiest ways for me to gain weight, to find easy ways to remember what I should be eating, and to make it work in my schedule. This article shares some of the best tips I’ve learned along the way so far.